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Are You Destined for Pain in Your Relationship?

Posted on 25. Nov, 2009 by ChiroPam in Relationships

A lot of people find themselves attracted to potential mates that aren’t really compatible with them. Why is that? For some reason, opposites do tend to attract. The relationship doesn’t always work out as you hoped but every relationship you have had can teach you a bit more about yourself — if you take the time to learn.

Many women try, in vain, to pursue a serious relationship with a man who doesn’t want to commit to a long term relationship. Why do they always go for the bad boy — even when they’re just getting over being hurt?

Many men relentlessly pursue women for relationships when the woman has made it crystal clear that she is not interested in being more than friends. Why do we set ourselves up for more pain?

Your personality is moulded from your life and your experiences. That doesn’t mean that siblings who grew up in the same house will all have the exact same personality when they’re grown but if you look at how someone reacts in life you can often make sense of it by analysing the relationship dynamics in their family and how they were brought up. Holistic psychotherapy can help you uncover truths about your past that impact the way you make decisions that turn out to be bad for you.

Become Self-Aware Through Studying Archetypes

By learning about your archetypes and by studying those who you are in new relationships with, you can change how you react in a relationship. This creates a self-awareness that enables you to often thwart pain before you invest time and emotions. It may seem like a clinical approach to take to matters of the heart but if you see that you’re repeating patterns that cause you pain, it’s wise to consider making changes. Check out Katie Todd’s video, called: Why do Opposites Attract? and consider reading her book, Who Am I. The best-selling book is now available as a free download in the sidebar of this blog.

Tags: Archetypes, opposites attract, relationship advice, relationship pain, Relationships, self-awareness